Throwing My Life Away.

I think one of the biggest lies society tells our children is that they have all the time in the world. Hey, you're young, you've got your whole life ahead of you. You've got plenty of time. Go travel. Find yourself.

I'm telling my children something different. Find God. Find Him while you're young. Don't be afraid to throw away your life on Him.

Yes, I'm excited to be experiencing a small level of success with my writing. But it means nothing compared to the joy of waking each morning and choosing to follow Jesus. Most mornings that means waking up to the drudgery of hard, dirty work.

Oswald Chambers wrote: "Drudgery is one of the finest tests to determine the genuineness of our character. Drudgery is the work that is far removed from anything we think of as ideal work. It is the utterly hard, menial, tiresome and dirty work….Read John 13. In this chapter, we see the Incarnate God performing the greatest example of drudgery–washing fisherman's feet." (My Utmost For His Highest, Feb. 19)

Sometimes I get hung up on the idea of needing to do "meaningful work." Washing dishes, folding laundry, tending to sick babies is not my idea of ideal work. It is, however, the work God has given me to do. When I cheerfully do the work He has given me to do, He sanctifies it and makes it holy.

In other words, I find God in my work. Whenever I have neglected my daily work, I have trouble finding Him. But He has always blessed me with joy the moment I roll up my sleeves and start the day's work.

Of course, I would prefer to find God in a holier place than the kitchen sink! I would like to spend all day sitting before Him in a quiet sanctuary. But most days He has me sweatin' away inside my dirty house. I'm thankful He doesn't abandon me to my daily drudgery. He meets me there with grace for dirty pots and patience for dealing with my children.

Most importantly, He helps me find delight in the common, everyday tasks. There's a danger in rushing through my work to get to the "fun part" of my day. I don't think God divides up my life like I do. He's just as interested in how I do the dishes as in how I write. Everything I do is meaningful because each task is an opportunity to yield it as service to Him.

Colossians 3:23 tells me, "Whatever you do, do it heartily, as unto the Lord."

I love that word "heartily." It means exuberantly, vigorously, thoroughly and completely. If only I applied that kind of ethic to every task He gave me how much deeper would I come to know Him?

It's enough to make me wanna get up and start dinner prep right now! :)

Throwing my life away on God is not a waste. It's redemption.

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  • http://www.sixblessings.blogspot.com Carmen

    Amen, sister!

  • Sarah O.

    Thanks for the encouragement!

  • Rachel

    Wow…EE…a good word. Loved that…am going to share that with my small group tonight..you are so wise…I struggle with that in welfare casework, seems like everything I do sometimes is gruntwork that is going to be messed up in a day…the Lord holds us accountable for our heart attitude!

  • http://andi-horton.livejournal.com Andrea

    Fantastic and much, much needed post for me, tonight. Thank you :)

    As you touched on yourself, I think the best part of seeking Him is the way He’s faithful to meet us in the midst of our own daily drudgery, whatever that might be. Sometimes (usually at the unlikeliest moments) I get a fleeting, quiet glimpse of the things God is doing in me, the changes I’d never have been able to undergo without Him, and it just makes me want to chase Him more! It’s such an amazing gift, and I needed this reminder of it.

  • http://www.minthegap.com MInTheGap

    In the book of Revelation it says that even what we consider to be most unholy– even the bathroom– will read “Holiness to the Lord.” It’s amazing to think that He’s with us everywhere, and we need to make every opportunity a time to meet with Him.

  • Stacey

    Thank you for this GREAT post. I hope you don’t mind, but I printed it and it’s hanging on my fridge…right next to my sink. Thank you again..I need to read this today.

  • http://www.morningstarr.typepad.com Dina

    Yes! Love this! It’s a good reminder for moms to think of what education will serve our kids best in life. We all want a Great education and wonderful opportunities for our kids but the wisdom they need the most can only be found in the humble quest for a relationship with God. Finding Him within our relationship together will bring out the best of ourselves, for His glory.

  • http://www.withcontentment.blogspot.com Melanie

    Thank you!!!!!

  • http://www.shoemomma.blogspot.com jenny

    So true… and very well spoken/written. :)

  • http://a-mothersmusings.blogspot.com Sandi

    Needed to read this one too.

  • http://justaelinn.blogspot.com Aelinn

    Well, I just came over from Conversion Diary, and I’m glad I did! I’m off to read more of your stuff…

  • http://becomingthekindofwomaniwantmydaughtertobe.wordpress.com Alisa

    EE, I think we might be kindred spirits.

    First, I LOVE Oswald Chambers, especially his thoughts you shared.

    And, I have Colossians 3:23 taped above… my kitchen sink. ;-)

  • http://theextraordinaryordinary.blogspot.com Heather of the EO

    I’m nodding :)

    http://theextraordinaryordinary.blogspot.com/2009/02/foundation-of-dream.html

    Just found your blog through Twitter. I’m relating BIG TIME. I too grew up in a very conservative fundamentalist church. Just the other day my therapist said, “these are very deep wounds.” Uh huh. Believing your entire life that you are nothing but terribly “sin sick” is really tricky stuff to overcome. I’ve only just begun. So glad to have found your blog,
    Heather

  • Priscilla

    This reminds me of Brother Lawrence – “The Practice of the Presence of God”
    I really enjoy your blog Elizabeth!
    - Priscilla (Reisinger) Putman

  • http://diapersanddivinity.com Steph @ Diapers and Divinity

    I’m a first-time visitor, and I was drawn to this post on your sidebar because it seems to be the same thing I try to blog about too. Thanks for the great quotes you share and the insights you give about the dreary details of motherhood that I believe are so tightly intertwined with the divinity of it.