Friday Roundup

Here are some pieces I’ve been reading and thinking about this week. Enjoy.

Scott Morizot shares a fascinating video about the difference between the Orthodox & Protestant view of salvation. Be sure to read the comments, too. Scott is great at dissecting/explaining the ideas.

Jennifer Fulwiler shares some thoughts from St. Francis de Sales about prayer and how to place yourself in the presence of God.

New research shows that bilingualism can help ward off Alzheimer’s and dementia. Yet another good reason to teach your kids a second language!

Rachel Held Evans asks: have you been exposed to the myth that beauty is part of “biblical womanhood”? With all the pressures placed on Christian women, I found Rachel’s insights especially myth-shattering.

Bound4Life, a prayer-based pro-life group which eschews vocal, angry protests and instead relies on silence and prayer, shared an interesting video that highlighted some of the recent debate on Mike Pence’s amendment to defund Planned Parenthood.  (By the way, the House voted 240-185 to defund Planned Parenthood).

Yes, I am going to Relevant ’11: a Christian blogging conference! Shocking, right? Here’s why: I think it’s hugely important for Christians of all persuasions to make an effort at crossing theological lines and demonstrating love to their brothers and sisters who perhaps practice their faith in different ways. The Christian community is larger than just conservative, homeschooling evangelicals or just Catholics or just _______(fill in the blank). I am making this decision in good faith, hoping I will be welcomed. My heart is open. Is yours? (Relevant tickets go on sale March 1st. I would love to meet some of you in person. Please consider attending?)

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  • http://www.andtheycallherblessed.blogspot.com Jessica Bish

    I want to go to Relevant so terribly bad…… want to sponsor me??? :)

    Praying for all the women who are going to attend that it will be a time of growing and learning and that God might recharge them in this crazy busy world we live!

    Be honest… you just want to meet Sarah Mae face to face :) (me too!)

  • Katy-Anne

    I want to go to Relevant, I wanted to go last year too. But, only rich people can go to Relevant. I’m not rich.

  • KatR

    I love this comment from Matt Lockett from Bound4Life “She seems ignorant of the reality that more than 98% of abortion decisions are had for lifestyle reasons including “inconvenience.”

    Yes! Because 9 months of pregnancy and childbirth are easy-breezy! Especially because no woman in America ever has to worry about losing her job if she’s ill during pregnancy, what to do if she can’t afford to take unpaid leave to recover after she’s had the baby. I especially think it’s important to get that lecture from someone with no uterus. Thanks for setting us whiners straight, Matt!

    Ok, rant over.

    • http://faithandfood.morizot.net/ Scott Morizot

      I didn’t follow that link, but the 98% number comes from taking every reason given other than this pregnancy is endangering your life and perhaps rape or incest (though those reasons are severely under reported according to every analysis I’ve seen) and labeling it as a “lifestyle reason.” That’s dishonest. I’m not one of those who is simplistic enough to believe that as Christians we should “never” lie. I’m disgusted by those who say stupid things like the only morally right thing to do if Nazis came asking where the Jews you were hiding were would be to tell the truth or say nothing. Nevertheless, most of the time we need to learn to speak the truth without distortion. It’s hard. It’s always been hard. It’s hard to even be fully honest with yourself. But that’s what we need to strive to do.

      In some of her past talks on abortion, I remember Frederica Mathewes-Green really went through the studies (or was reporting from those who did). When asked, the number one reason women gave for getting an abortion was because someone they loved and trusted told them it was the right thing to do. Whatever your views on abortion, I challenge everyone to stop for a minute and let that sink in. It has profound implications.

      • http://www.elizabethesther.com elizabeth

        I agree with you, Scott. I don’t like the 98% stat thrown out there because it’s really much more complicated than that. What I *do* like about Bound4Life’s approach is that it’s silent and it’s prayerful. I just finished reading Abby Johnson’s “unPlanned”–she was a director of a PP clinic. Her account is compassionate, honest and very genuine. She liked “Coalition for Life”‘s approach to the abortion issue: kindness, gentleness, peacefulness.

      • Amanda

        I don’t think it’s dishonest to group all the rest of abortions into “lifestyle choice” because that’s ultimately what it is. If it’s NOT life threatening, or the result of non-consensual intercourse… then it’s because of consensual intercourse; ie CHOOSING to engage in a behavior that is known to create a baby. If you chose to have sex and created a child, you are now responsible for the child. At least that’s the way it should be.

        As for someone you trust and love telling you that killing the child is the right thing to do… I find that irrelevant. If you had a two-year-old and were completely overwhelmed, lost your job, had no money, were in depression or WHATEVER… if someone told you “terminating” them was the right thing to do, would you listen to them? Of course not, you’d be sickened and horrified at the suggestion. But because your child is much less developed and you can’t see them (although you actually could see them if you chose to do so) it’s a whole different issue. Yeesh.

        The fact is, it’s a new life. He or she has his/her own set of DNA and if you weren’t ready for a child then you clearly were not ready for intercourse. I am disgusted that people are not held responsible for their actions, particularly when it’s at the expense of a person’s life – their own child’s no less.

        EE – sorry that I sound angry and am thereby exemplifying the kind of talk that you disagree with… I apologize. I just can’t help but get angry when I think of the millions of babies that are aborted each year. I do spend most of my energy regarding the issue in prayer… but mostly because I find that people are unwilling to listen to reason or discuss the issue rationally. It usually ends up with them essentially sticking their fingers in their ears and calling me a “disgusting, incompassionate, anti-choice, women-hater” or whatever. All I am saying is that people should take responsibility for their actions, and that just because a person is at a particular level of development doesn’t make it okay to kill them, no matter how you try to justify it.

        I do understand that some women are deceived or coerced into having abortions and they do it against their own consciences or desires… I still think they are ultimately responsible for their “choice”, but I do sympathize with their situations. I would have no desire to stand out on the street and scream at them or anything like that. In dealing with women who are considering abortions my desire would be to plead with them not to take their child’s life.

        My issue is with people who treat the issue dishonestly. They pretend what’s in the womb is not a child, even though scientific evidence has clearly proven otherwise. They call anyone who tries to reveal what abortion truly is/does “fanatical” and accuse them of “hate-speech”. They call attempts to make a woman view her child before having an abortion “cruel and unusual punishment”. They spout off cliche emotion-evoking lines about “choice” and “reproductive rights” and try to cloud the issue. They spew hatred and profanity to cover the fact that they don’t really have an argument to stand on. It’s those people that I am angry with.

  • http://www.likeawarmcupofcoffee.com Sarah Mae

    You captured my heart for the conference, thank you!

  • http://faithandfood.morizot.net/ Scott Morizot

    Aw shucks. Thanks Elizabeth. I posted the video, but it’s by Steve Robinson. I do ramble a lot in the comments.

  • Caryl

    When I didn’t have insurance, I used planned parenthood for my medical needs (no, not abortion). They do more than abort, thank you.

    • http://www.elizabethesther.com elizabeth

      I totally empathize with women seeking low-cost healthcare. My heart goes out to you! ((hugs)) I realize PP does much more than provide abortions. But I’m just wondering if you’ve ever considered the reason why PP can provide low-cost healthcare?

    • de

      I don’t think the issue is what medical things they provide. I think the issue is that we’re funding an organization that does abortions when there are options out there for the poor which don’t do abortions (sorry a bit wordy). What I mean is that down the street is the health department where they offer services and “family planning” to women and men. They don’t do abortions. Go a different direction there is PP where they also offer the same services but also abortions. Federal money goes to the health department and to PP (currently).

      If we stop giving federal money to PP that doesn’t mean that services for the poor will suddenly stop. On the contrary, more tax dollars will be sent to the health department that provides services beyond family planning such as vaccinations and examinations. This I think is positive. Also I know people have trouble getting access to a health department. It is my fervent prayer that more health departments will be built as a result of the defunding of PP.

      These are things people aren’t talking about in main stream media. But there are other options for the poor beyond Planned Parenthood. I should know. I’m poor too.

      • http://faithandfood.morizot.net/ Scott Morizot

        It might be nice if that were actually the plan. But it’s not. The plan is to cease providing funds to PP and just stop providing that money anywhere. It’s a cut. There are places that under served by health departments nor do all health departments provide all the non-abortion services that PP provides. Let’s be clear about the difference between cutting funds from the budget and reallocating them. Personally, I have had experience with county health departments in both Arkansas and Texas. I have none with PP. But I do know that if you simply cut funds without doing anything else, you’re cutting services.

        • http://faithandfood.morizot.net/ Scott Morizot

          Or maybe not. I can’t seem to get a clear answer on what it does to funding, per se, when I do further research. Everybody online wants to spin it there way. And the budget is such that without lengthy analysis it’s hard to trace money and see if the same money is really allocated. But I do know there are places where you can find a PP clinic and no other health clinic. I don’t see any plans to establish new clinics. So that part of the issue, at least, hasn’t been addressed.

          • http://faithandfood.morizot.net/ Scott Morizot

            And I meant “their.” Not a mistake a normally make. Irritating.

  • http://remnantofremnant.blogspot.com priest’s wife

    I think it is a great idea to go to the conference- have fun!

  • http://thehomespunlife.com Sisterlisa

    Elizabeth, thank you for sharing Scott’s link to the video. So thought provoking. Love it!

    Yes, at Relevant I did find that many women from all different denominations were welcome there. Although I didn’t find many openly saying what denomination they were from. Through the few private conversations I had with ladies there, there were Catholic, Baptist, Evangelical, Fundamentalists, Pentecostals, Lutheran, and a Universalist. I would imagine there were more, but it just wasn’t even an issue. The fellowship was sweet and I enjoyed it immensely. If the finances are available for me to attend again, I will. But most likely for 2012, because 2011 is pretty busy for me as it is.

    Thanks for all the links today.

  • http://freetoreallythink.blogspot.com/ deborah (ashmore) Paul

    Elizabeth, I have been following you closely…

    And may I say, you are light, the real salt of the earth and I say, where have you been? Where? Please tell me. I have been drowning in abuse, control and it’s all ending starting with you and a few others that have TRULY helped this broken, frightened and scared half to death little girl who was an IFB preacher’s daughter. I am delighted to watch you here…at this place where you use your words because they are Christ’s. Oh, please poor the love thick and reach because we the abused need it.
    It is a safe place, a place of rest and peace and help. In an effort to process my own pain and realize what I myself was programmed to be I too started a blog…please help me by reading and sharing whenever you possibly can because I am scared half to death and the battle is just beginning…I love you. I can’t see you but one day in glorious heaven I will and I will meet someone that helped to save me…my heart right along with Jesus.

    http://freetoreallythink.blogspot.com/

  • http://Www.morningstarr.typepad.com Dina

    Can you believe I actually just thought about going this past weekend?! I might be too much of a food snob though and by their own admission the food isn’t gourmet.;) How fun would it be to see you for a whole weekend, though?! Happy conferencing!