Monthly Archives: June 2011

On being a “poverty tourist”

Just in time for my trip to Bolivia with World Vision, there’s some controversy about the supposed condescension of bloggers going to “dirt-poor regions to solemnly observe the impoverished in their natural habitats before returning home with an interesting infection and an … Continue reading

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Why I let my sons play violent video games

Now, my boys aren’t playing Grand Theft Auto because I’m not OK with them going on gratuitous crime sprees. But my boys do play Call of Duty because I’m fine with them chasing down Nazis. It’s a subtle difference I wouldn’t expect … Continue reading

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A soul-mate is the man who gets up with the baby at 2am

I like giving dating advice to my daughters. Of course, they won’t be dating until they’re 35, but it’s important to give them a head start. I already have a lot of work to do — or shall I say, undo? … Continue reading

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I’m going to Bolivia with World Vision!

Are we ever really ready when God asks us to do something that is wildly outside our carefully constructed comfort zone? I know I’m not. Sure, I can pray, read my Bible, plan and prepare but ultimately, when the moment … Continue reading

Posted in World Vision: Bolivia | 30 Comments

How an ENFP cleans house

The twins watch Food Network with me and have decided they want to “be Ina!”–as in, Ina Garten of Barefoot Contessa fame. To quote Ina herself, “How bad could that be?” Not bad at all, I say. So, I let … Continue reading

Posted in Her Royal Mommy-Ness, Twins!! | 15 Comments

7 Quick Takes

1. Christianity Today posted a nice review of my friend Hillary McFarland’s book, Quivering Daughters. As you may know, I wrote the foreword to Hillary’s book and it was my singular privilege to give voice and support to the suffering … Continue reading

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My rock star cousin’s debut music video! WATCH!!! “Games We Play” by David Geftakys!

OK, so first. Can I tell you how proud I am? Every time I watch this video I get all weepy because….if you’ve read here for awhile you know the sequestered, harsh world I grew up in. My cousin came … Continue reading

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Catholic & Protestant Under One Roof

I don’t really like labels. I mean, they’re helpful for identifying things like flank steak vs. rump roast. But when applied to humans–things get tricky. Still, if I’m required to align myself inside Christendom, I call myself Catholic. And my … Continue reading

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Why we opted out of public school sex-ed

At the end of each school year there are projects, presentations and class parties. There is also sex education — a course that, in my daughter’s 6th grade science class, covers a range of topics from reproduction to sexually transmitted … Continue reading

Posted in OC Register Column | 14 Comments

Satirical Thank You Notes–the parenting version!

I’ve gotten a good laugh out of Jimmy Fallon’s tongue-in-cheek “Thank You Notes” comedy routine. Just for fun, I decided to write a few “Thank You Notes” myself. Here are my low-budget thank you notes…to parents. NOTE: except for the … Continue reading

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