Category Archives: Catholicism

We’re that big, annoying family who only comes to your restaurant on $1 taco nights

We’ll order 14 tacos, eat at least 8 baskets of free chips and drink at least 7 glasses of free water. But don’t worry. We’ll leave a good tip. Right next to our good and empty margarita glasses. [Sidebar: This … Continue reading

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5 easy tips for promoting (edifying!) dialogue between Protestants & Catholics

Last week, I got an email from a befuddled, genuinely distressed Catholic. She dearly loves her Southern Baptist friends but doesn’t know how to converse with them about Christianity. For example, the Southern Baptist once started a conversation by asking: … Continue reading

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Why is Cardinal Mahoney going to Rome and voting for the next Pope????!!!!?????

If a priest molests a child he should be arrested and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. He should be immediately dismissed. He should serve jail time. Molesting a child is a criminal act and it should be … Continue reading

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Stop punishing yourself.

So, yeah. I had to stop fasting around 2:30pm on Ash Wednesday. The thing is, I have to be careful. I am already prone to melancholy. I tread a delicate balance between dark and light. I’m very aware of my … Continue reading

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Return to Me with your whole heart #AshWednesday

Even now, says the LORD, return to Me with your whole heart, For gracious and merciful is He, slow to anger, rich in kindness, and relenting in punishment. Joel 2:12-13 How can a heart that is given over to the affection … Continue reading

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What the Pope’s resignation means to a former fundamentalist (and new Catholic)

Four years ago, I entered the Catholic Church. This morning, like many of the 1.2 billion Catholics around the world, the news of our Pope’s resignation came as a surprise to me. This is the first time in almost 600 … Continue reading

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Rite of Sending

My husband, Matt, has been going through the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults and today, he begins his formal journey into the Catholic Church through the Rite of Sending. Four years ago, at Easter Vigil 2009, I entered the … Continue reading

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Preach always. If necessary, use words.

Preach always. If necessary, use words. –St. Francis of Assisi Two years ago, I was in the Confessional, arguing with my priest. This is what I do. I go confess my sins and then end up arguing about stuff. I’m … Continue reading

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Seven Gifts of Fundamentalism

I’ve spent a lot of time in the past few years deconstructing the harmful elements of fundamentalism. Today I’d like to reflect on some of the ways I benefitted from being raised in a strict, religious environment. Because, the truth … Continue reading

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Bring on the blood, bring on the gore, Halloween doesn’t scare me anymore

It only took me 35 years to dress up for that evil, pagan holiday called Halloween. I was the proverbial Alice, lost in (Fundamentalist) Wonderland. I used to think Christians celebrating Halloween was comparable to Jews celebrating Hitler’s birthday. That … Continue reading

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