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Category Archives: Michael & Debi Pearl
I was spanked as a child and I turned out ok. Didn’t I?
It’s late on a night during Holy Week. I’m alone and I’m trembling because I have seen into my heart of darkness and it’s brought everything back…. I was spanked and spanked and spanked and I turned out OK, didn’t … Continue reading
Love until it hurts
I spread my life out on the table. My editor and I sifted through the pictures, newspaper clippings, poems I’d written as a child. We were looking for the stories, the driving questions, the point of conflict, the resolution. And … Continue reading
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Lydia Schatz’s 2 year death anniversary #NoMoreDeadKids (and look how far we’ve come)
When I first started blogging about the abusive child-training practices of Michael and Debi Pearl, I was–as Michael Pearl dubbed me–a small, “vocal minority.” As you will see in the video below, Pearl attacked me with all kinds of scurrilous … Continue reading
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Yo, yo, yo! Give it up for: “Book Burning Thugz” aaaaand “Enemeeez of da Troof!”
Let me introduce you to my party people in da club. According to No Great Joy Ministries, those of us who are speaking out against Michael Pearl are “enemies of the truth” and “book burning thugs.” Enemies of The Truth? … Continue reading
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How did “To Train Up A Child” Become So Popular?
Over the next few days, I’ll try to answer some of the questions I’ve been asked after my appearance on Anderson Cooper’s show. This first one is: “How did ‘To Train Up A Child’ become so popular and in what … Continue reading
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If it feels good, it’s sinful
Why do parents believe God wants them to spank their children into submission? There are several underlying beliefs that motivate this approach: The parents believe human beings are essentially, inherently evil and thus… God wants parents to “break” their child’s … Continue reading
Posted in Childbearing, Cults, Michael & Debi Pearl
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Sitting on the couch with Michael Pearl
Now that the show has aired for most of the country, I’m going to share more of my experience. First, to answer today’s most frequently asked questions along with some of my own: 1. I do not know if the … Continue reading
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My thoughts on @Anderson show airing tomorrow: speaking imperfectly is better than remaining silent #NoMoreDeadKids
video platformvideo managementvideo solutionsvideo player The criticism has begun. Pro-Pearl defenders who appeared with me as guests on Anderson Cooper’s show have written a piece wherein they claim “the entire show was twisted” and how they “watched time and time … Continue reading
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Seductive promise of perfectly happy, obedient children feeds abuse
What seduces a parent to follow the inherently abusive ‘child-training’ practices taught by Michael & Debi Pearl? Simple. It’s the sparkling promise of perfectly obedient, unflaggingly cheerful children who will grow up to follow God all the days of their … Continue reading
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My appearance on Anderson Cooper’s daytime talk show airs this Friday, Dec. 2nd #NoMoreDeadKids
A few weeks ago I was invited to Anderson Cooper’s national daytime talk show to share how I was prepared for parenthood by being indoctrinated into the abusive “child-training” methods of Michael & Debi Pearl. I shared my firsthand account … Continue reading
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