Category Archives: Sex & Faith

The day I learned I was a hipster/progressive/”current feminist” advocating ‘commitment-free’ sex for all!

Posted on February 9, 2013 by elizabeth

And here I thought I was just Catholic (but if I snap out of my “current” feminism anytime soon, I’ll be sure to let you know). In the meantime, allow me to give you a brief summary of the pushback … Continue reading →

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Purity Culture Fallout: “I wanted to die because I had ruined ‘God’s plan for my life’”

Posted on February 4, 2013 by elizabeth

This weekend I read through your stories about the harmful effects of purity culture. I found myself nodding, laughing and weeping. For many years I felt very alone in my struggle with sexuality and the purity culture. That has all … Continue reading →

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Am I being “soft on sin”?

Posted on January 30, 2013 by elizabeth

In the aftermath of my post on idolizing virginity and Sarah Bessey’s post on being damaged goods, there are some who say we do not have a “holy hatred” for sin. We are told that we are “soft on sin” and, as one commenter … Continue reading →

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So, I guess I should write about sex more often?

Posted on January 29, 2013 by elizabeth

Yesterday was the biggest traffic day on my blog. Ever. The comments, though, were my favorite. I read every single one. I cried. I laughed. My heart broke all over my laptop. I just want to thank you for sharing … Continue reading →

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